6 Ways to Stop Worrying What People Think About You
We all are concerned about what people think about us? Yes!! we all like to be appreciated. But do you really know where the problem lies? When others opinions overrule your happiness and success. "Bad is stronger than good", suppose for your action you get ninety-nine compliments and one criticism, which one would you think of? At this very moment, we start giving shape to our life to meet their expectations suppressing our demands. Eventually, we build up few habits.
We are unable to hurt others feelings even if we are going through a toxic relationship. We need to reconstruct ourselves for our own good and not for others. So let's go for a middle ground. Hear all the criticism but listen only by filtering all the gossip.
How to Overcome it?
1.Go Against yourself intentionally
Sometimes you do something intentionally going against your liking after any sort of opinions transform to what you like. You will become courageous and start growing confidence to take the social situations. Start small, grow from there. When you start training yourself in little things you will be able to face bigger challenges in the longer run.
2.Stop seeking opinions
When do we seek opinion? When we are lack of confidence and at the same time putting ourselves in trouble. If you really want to stop relying on and caring about others thought to stop asking for their feedback.
3.Perfection envy Excellence
People always aks for performances. If you try to be perfect in the first shot yo will never be able to achieve your goals. Try to do better the very next time, which automatically will lead you to perfection.
4.Focus on Your Goals
Our goals are limited and it is important to stay productive, prioritize them. When you have enough time to brood over others opinions, it clearly shows you are not focused on achieving your goals. Try to achieve and pursue what makes you happy and satisfied.
5.List it down
When you worry about others, ask yourself who they are? Ask yourself for the name list? You would eventually see that the list drops down to a number of gossipy freaks and uneducated jerks which is way more easier to handle than you think.
6. Be a Ruler
The ruler doesn't mean to boss over others and dominate. Ruler here means to rule yourself. When you see someone doing unacceptable things you stop them right away and when you know your actions are unacceptable you ask yourself to rectify.
On an ending note, become your own critic. Why let others imprise you? Opinions are free and thoughts are harmless, they will bother you only if you let them to. Increasing your self-esteem and confidence will let you break the prison and explore your own art of living.
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We are unable to hurt others feelings even if we are going through a toxic relationship. We need to reconstruct ourselves for our own good and not for others. So let's go for a middle ground. Hear all the criticism but listen only by filtering all the gossip.
How to Overcome it?
1.Go Against yourself intentionally
Sometimes you do something intentionally going against your liking after any sort of opinions transform to what you like. You will become courageous and start growing confidence to take the social situations. Start small, grow from there. When you start training yourself in little things you will be able to face bigger challenges in the longer run.
2.Stop seeking opinions
3.Perfection envy Excellence
People always aks for performances. If you try to be perfect in the first shot yo will never be able to achieve your goals. Try to do better the very next time, which automatically will lead you to perfection.
4.Focus on Your Goals
Our goals are limited and it is important to stay productive, prioritize them. When you have enough time to brood over others opinions, it clearly shows you are not focused on achieving your goals. Try to achieve and pursue what makes you happy and satisfied.
5.List it down
When you worry about others, ask yourself who they are? Ask yourself for the name list? You would eventually see that the list drops down to a number of gossipy freaks and uneducated jerks which is way more easier to handle than you think.
6. Be a Ruler
The ruler doesn't mean to boss over others and dominate. Ruler here means to rule yourself. When you see someone doing unacceptable things you stop them right away and when you know your actions are unacceptable you ask yourself to rectify.
On an ending note, become your own critic. Why let others imprise you? Opinions are free and thoughts are harmless, they will bother you only if you let them to. Increasing your self-esteem and confidence will let you break the prison and explore your own art of living.
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